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Kay Stratton's avatar

My good friend who passed in 2019 used to classify people as sinks or drains & it was the first time I had heard it. We would be talking about something & she would text back “DRAIN”. Great way of explaining it. 🙏🏼

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Sofia A Koutlaki's avatar

You are certainly are a Radiator, Tracy! Thanks for writing this post and for your positive energy vibes.

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Tracy O’Brien's avatar

Thanks Sofia, you are also one of life’s radiators 💗💗💗

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DD🌻's avatar

I enjoy this read. Thank you. Knowing I can be either as well as neither depending on the company I keep. Full acceptance is key, and knowing I am myself. 🙏

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Tracy O’Brien's avatar

Thank you 🙏 it is important to remember we can be both 💗

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DD🌻's avatar

indeed. 🙏❤️

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

Oh I really like this capture of the two ends of behaviour. Thanks! And also, I LOVE the suggestion to create a protective white cocoon around myself to protect from the drain/sink comments that really do suck the life and joy from me. I will hold that image close. Thanks Tracy!

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Tracy O’Brien's avatar

Thank you, please ensure your cocoon allows free flow of energy 💗💗

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Louise Coghlan's avatar

Thanks for being a radiator for so many Tracy and for how lucky I was to find you in this world. Love ya lots T x

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